I would add, that God is with me in those moments of "eating alone". Eating alone is powerful... forces you to meet your fear over wine and not flinch. The more you do it the more empowered you become. In your strengthened state you will once again offer invitation to dine with.... Yes. You. Will. And in the back of your mind and in your heart you will no longer be afraid should things go south.... Remember you've eaten alone in triumph!
Divorce is perhaps one of the most stressful, chaotic, painful events in someone's life. It is easy to stop enjoying life's pleasures in the face of uncertainty. I am saying to you, nourish the body to nourish the soul.
Eat Well NOW!