Sure it's raining now. And maybe it feels like you're drenched in all things divorce.
Keep the faith! And buy a happy umbrella!
It won't rain forever. You have to decide when you want the sun to shine. You bring the sun, just as you bring the rain. Oh the rain is needed... the tears are healing and must be shed. Perhaps the Ex is giving you more drama than you think you can bear. You can. All that pouring rain is just a metaphor for your currrent state of affairs. Let it all wash away. You are not losing anything at all. You are gaining peace defined by your brilliant mind.
Perhaps this divorce is not what you imagined for yourself. I took those vows too, for better or worse, in sickness and in health til death do us part... yeah, I believed it too and still do. At the moment that's not my reality. I am divorced. You are getting divorced. Show up for your life rain or shine.
SHOW UP FOR YOUR LIFE RAIN OR SHINE!
Get a funky umbrella and keep it moving. You'll stop the rain when you're ready. You want the sun to shine again and you won't remember fully what all the sadness was about anyway.
Divorce is perhaps one of the most stressful, chaotic, painful events in someone's life. It is easy to stop enjoying life's pleasures in the face of uncertainty. I am saying to you, nourish the body to nourish the soul.
Eat Well NOW!