Saturday, October 25, 2014

You Have the Power To Decide


Wednesday, October 15, 2014

The Closure Is Letting Go of Seeking Closure

Everyone believes closure is the great end all of things,
but not if it holds you hostage by spending time chasing for closure.
When really if you owned yourself
the closure is in letting go.
Let go. That's the closure. -Babz Rawls Ivy, Spiritual Director, Path Illuming


Thursday, October 2, 2014

Let The Life You Want Emerge

Divorce is still this scary life changing thing. Even if it's not yours and you know someone who is going though a divorce, you can see and feel the pain and intensity of losing what used to be.


I encourage anyone in a divorcing situation to spend some time looking at this from another place. Perhaps there is a new life emerging that is really your true life emerging. I invite you to look from a different vantage point...take a step left or right and see something else. Look beyond the current pain and mess. You can come back to it... leave it for a moment. Imagine a life of your own making... you as the sole decision maker. What could you do, now that it's all about you?

Yes, perhaps you have children, career, parents, friends, mortgage, tuition, bills and whatever else. Set those things aside, make room in your mind for a daydream of your own. Take a few minutes each day and just find the freedom in your mind. as you do this consistently you will feel compelled to move in that direction.

Let the life destined for you emerge. Allow yourself a little bit of time to open the door little by little to those long held dreams. Nothing is impossible and you can always always change direction.


Sunday, September 21, 2014

And Maybe....


Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Brian McKnight - One Last Cry

Have one last cry... then leave it all behind.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Don't Give Up In The Middle.

Don't give up in the middle. Your life is more than this divorce. It is more than the feeling of losing. Maybe it feels bleak, dark and chaotic, hang in and hang on. Seek a tribe, a circle, to support you. Give yourself what you need and don't be guilty or sorry. Take your heart and nurture it. Be kind to yourself.

Don't give up in the middle of your grand story!

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Say Something - Gianni and Sarah of Walk off the Earth

I love their version of this song! Explore this group, they are quite talented! Add them to your soundtrack of your life. And when you're up to it check out their version of HAPPY by Pharrell. They do it justice.